See     http://www.youtube.

           com/watch?v=5j8hAgzPz7Y.

A long-time member of PflagAlamance found this statement meaningful.  It is from Justin Lee, executive director of the Gay Christian Network.

He believes that many of the 6l% of North Carolinians who voted FOR the Amendment just didn’t understand; they still believe being gay is a choice.     So our job is to help them learn.